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how come the a lot of military wives are overweight and just sit around mooching off their husbands and having kids after kids after kids, seems like they just want that extra $. kinda sad to see all these fat ladies on base with a ton of kids, I feel so bad.. then I laugh LOL
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Okay, educate yourself…do you know what BMI is (Body Mass Index)? When you figure out yours, you will most likely be overweight as well. Also what extra money do they get? A private could have one kid and one on the way and he will still make private E-1 money with BAH. His BAH will go to military housing (all of it will) unless they live off post. The only way you could really make money off your kids is when you claim them during taxes, or if he/she was in a government program. What is it with people’s black and white point of view? People gain weight from all kinds of things and for people to be so ignorant about kind of pisses me off. Wether your fat, skinny, slender or whatever it shouldn’t matter. I see more slender/skinny women with 5-6 kids and I think, nobody has time for that. They stay at home and do they same thing you are stereotyping. Please be a better person before you teach your kids (if you have any) to be ignorant people.


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I think it's funny that I get called the "tag chaser" but yet your man is chasing me to get in my pants and won't shut up about his job and rank. Most of you wives and gfs are so fucking ignorant to how you're men are.
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I agree that they shouldn’t blame the girl but then again if you know he’s taken…you have 50 cents in that dollar too.


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I have had sex with my friends wife. My own wife doesn't have sex with me and she doesn't know how to please me. I've tried to open her up to new things, but no such luck. I like sleeping with my friends wife.
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You can’t have your cake and eat it too


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when are you going to reveal your identity?lol
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I don’t know, I feel like everyone has the ability to be anonymous, and that’s kind of the theme of my page. Of course you can comment how you choose, I kind of feel like of I revealed my identity someone would start drama over it…but if you must know…I’m Bruce Wayne


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why is it that literally all military wives seem to sell wraps? it's annoying as shit, and desperate. It's like stop blowing up Instagram and get a real job
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realtalk-militaryconfessions:

Would you rather them sell drugs, or be a stripper? At least it’s honest and I would buy some, they seem like an good product…I mean you can block them, if it is annoying lol

First off 95% of people are over weight, educate yourself and learn BMI.


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why is it that literally all military wives seem to sell wraps? it's annoying as shit, and desperate. It's like stop blowing up Instagram and get a real job
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Would you rather them sell drugs, or be a stripper? At least it’s honest and I would buy some, they seem like an good product…I mean you can block them, if it is annoying lol


Has he been deployed? If so he may be dealing with PTSD…if not then it may be that he is bipolar…if not then sit down and discuss with him what his deal is…you two may need a neutral mediation (counseling) and it is free to military families. This is a good wake up call for spouses…I’m sorry you’re going through that with your husband…it’s so important that if you aren’t working and making money that you go to school and work as hard as you can…because you never know when things like that will happen and if something causes you (not referring to the anon but everyone in GENERAL) to split up with your SO. We as spouse put so much trust into our SOs that we forget that they have the capability to turn on us and it’s important to have our own goals, money and career…hope it works out for you!

Has he been deployed? If so he may be dealing with PTSD…if not then it may be that he is bipolar…if not then sit down and discuss with him what his deal is…you two may need a neutral mediation (counseling) and it is free to military families. This is a good wake up call for spouses…I’m sorry you’re going through that with your husband…it’s so important that if you aren’t working and making money that you go to school and work as hard as you can…because you never know when things like that will happen and if something causes you (not referring to the anon but everyone in GENERAL) to split up with your SO. We as spouse put so much trust into our SOs that we forget that they have the capability to turn on us and it’s important to have our own goals, money and career…hope it works out for you!


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How do you feel about young military moms? Wives getting pregnant at 18-20, are they the typical military wife?
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That’s a pretty good question…I can say it’s very common to have kids right when we get married but not everyone does it…it’s honestly pretty hard to say what a typical military wife is because we all do our own things and we are all different. I actually think it’s more typical to have kids in general as a military wife…so many may not have them in their teens or early 20s but they have kids…when I first got to my husbands duty station everyone he knew they had kids…I love kids but being young and really wanting to relate someone and make friends…most of the women were in their mid-late 20s with 2-3 kids or either pregnant and I couldn’t relate because they were such moms lol (not judging moms, I want to be one someday) I wanted someone who could keep up (if that makes sense) some moms can do it all but you want to be able to have fun without being censored you know? I guess what I have to say is it’s just a common thing to have kids in general in the military rather than not have them…there’s no specific age I think..if you’re 18 and having kids then you’re more ready than my husband I…we have a dog and that’s enough right now lol..some people are just ready sooner than others I know people who had a kid at 19 and they throw the kid on anyone they can for a chance to go out because they weren’t ready…I know a couple who got married at 18 but haven’t had kids since and they are now 25…it honestly just depends how ready you are…


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I honestly have lost respect for service members...i get they're people but most of them have no home training, common courtesy, or common sense, they expect to be respected but cant even show courtesy...i don't care if im not in the military...you have to earn respect to get it!
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Exactly, respect is earned and it’s a 2 way street..at the end of the day they are people like you said it just seems worse because they wear a uniform….but they’re are all kinds of people in the military…even assholes


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Am i the only one who doesnt get the point of "carepackages" outside deployments? Like dont their SO's have stores where they live? lol and whats with the elaboratley decorated ones? most guys I know would rather have more things inside the box not a pretty one ... Nothing against the women who make them Lol I just dont get it \(._.)/
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To let them know you care lol…the pretty boxes to me show you care and put effort in it…I sent my husband an Easter care package while he was in Texas


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What do you think about skype sex? Me and my boyfriend do it often and I was wondering what people thought of it
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Lol whatever floats your boat, he’s your man and I think it’s what couples do to keep their sex life alive and fun. There’s nothing wrong with the who “Skype-cyber” sex


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I moved away with my husband when he joined the navy about a year ago. Well my best friend since I was like 5 came (I'm going to call her Callie). We all got drunk and while we were drunk Callie and I ended up giving MY husband head. It's been a fantasy for my husband. I didn't want to do it but went along with it so he could fulfill his fantasy. I'm not mad at her or him. Is this something other people have done too? I just feel weird about it.
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Well I haven’t done it, I’m too jealous..I am not judging but I feel like you’re opening a door..and that door might lead to insecurities and other things…you can be okay with it one day but then when you realize that your not feeling it so much you may not like what’s going on with the relationship…a marriage is between two…and it may be your thing but be careful


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I think it's so stupid how when a girl cheats on her service member man she's all kind of names...but when he cheats it's just like he's an asshole and everyone moves on
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Cheating is cheating, but I do notice that myself…they take it so personal when SHE cheats and for what reason?


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Im cheating on my husband
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Maybe you should come clean to him


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My husband cheated on me, I left him. I really miss him but I don't know if I should get back with him. He hasn't really tried to get back with me but he tells me he misses me as well. I don't know if getting back with him would be a good idea because he's had 2 hook ups already so idont know what that would do to our sex life. I do love him but not sure if I should give him another chance?
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In my opinion I feel like if he misses you then why would he already have hooked up with other women, that just shows you that he doesn’t care as much as he does…we have needs but to hook up with other people just because your wife is gone…that’s not a mistake…I can’t tell you to give him a second chance or be done with him completely because you may really really love him or really really hate him. Just ask yourself how do you feel knowing he’s been with other women..I guarantee it will make your sex life awkward but it’s up to you two to move past it (if you want to make it work).